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Play with a simple restraint.

, a certified sex therapist and sexologist in New York.

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The biggest rule: If you and your partner are both interested in , have an open conversation about what it is about kink that's a turn-on, and what you're comfortable trying, says Jenni Skyler, Ph.

Instead, cue up The Secretary on Netflix, advises Aaron.

Not that spanking is off limits or anything.

, a psychotherapist and sex therapist in New York and California.

See a few interesting ideas but still shy about initiating? Ortmann recommends The Pleasure Chest.

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